Rejecting the ones you love.Have you ever ?




If you’re the one who's  pushing away people the second they get too close you should know:

If you did it and you admit it…..

It's very important that you've noticed this pattern in yourself- that's the first step to improving your interpersonal relationships and understanding why you do the things you do.

Firstly you should know that what you’re doing it’s called a defence mechanism.You are afraid of getting hurt so you’re building a fence around you which will reject others.

The next step ist to find out why is it so hard for you to fully trusting people, and what specific experiences you've been through that led you to develop this defense mechanism. You probably had no idea that it would have such a lasting effect on the way you view friendships and commitment.

One of the reasons why this defence mechanism may have been borne is a lack of self-esteem. A shaky self-image. Maybe, deep down, you have this small, weird, nagging fear that you're not good enough to be somebody's close friend. Maybe you feel like you're just not worth someone's emotional investment and time: you unconsciously determine that the safe thing to do is to cut off friendships before there is an opportunity to confirm your fears.

But the reason why you have a lack of self-esteem now may be in your past.You may have been badly hurt in the past(maybe several times) and that made you think you’ll never be good enough for someome, people will never accept you the way you are. But in the end….

This is really a matter of self acceptance. If you accept yourself for what you are and allow people to relate to you, then they will not feel as if they are being pushed away. It's perception and the perception starts from within you because that is what you want to do. People don't necessarily want to push people away but what they do want to do is hide themselves.

Another reason can be early childhood trauma. Many young children learn that it's safer to be self-sufficient, that as soon as you love someone they let you down, that if you rely on someone you give them the power to hurt you.. children think in absolutes. During the many unpleasant times in your childhood, you learned to keep an emotional distance between yourself and every other person. .That’s fear of rejection,you think” if I push you away first then you cannot hurt me” 

This behavior is usually found in persons with borderline personality disorder. These persons have an enormous and disabling fear of abandonment usually stemming from childhood (mostly) emotional and physical abandonment and /or negation by their parents or caregivers.This all might sound kind of strange, like "oh, you can’t make a relationship work because your dad/mum fucked you up -never loved you enough as a kid", but the reality is, people learn from their experiences and respond to them accordingly- something in you wants to protect from being hurt, which probably means somebody hurt you.

But the reasons why you push people away from you are many more. Sometimes there are things that you go through that you don't want that other person to be involved because those things are too personal for you and you don’t want anyone to know them(maybe you’re ashamed of those things). So in order to keep those things a secret, you don’t allow anyone to get closer.

It could be there is an unresolved emotional issue that resurfaces when people get close to you. They show you something about yourself that is not resolved, and until it is , there can be the tendency to push away people that remind you of whatever it is. And even if you may not think (subconsciously or not) that they would reject you, you may feel that there are parts of you that you would rather not share with someone whose respect you value.

Something like: some people see you as a smart, pretty, and strong person. But sometimes things are not working too good for you so maybe you don’t look so pretty anymore(might be a weight gain, or maybe you’re sick in some way and that makes you look less pretty then usually), maybe you failed at work/school and that makes you”smart” image disappear,maybe you’re affected be everything, you cry all the time, you’re depressed and you don’t want them to know that vulnerable side of you.You used to be smart, pretty and strong.Now you think you’re ugly, dumb and weak(in your opinion).And you belive that those people, seeing you this way, won’t want you anymore.So you push them away before they can push you for not being what you used to be.

Sometimes you do it because when you push and they come back, it makes you feel more secure.

Or maybe you love someone so much that you are scared of them leaving you, so pushing them away first is a form of protection.

Sometimes it’s all just a test.But that doesn’t makes you mean.It’s not something you do because you want to.You push them away (unconsciously) to see if they care enough about you to come back.

Maybe you feel that in the past you trusted too freely and now you want people to "earn" your trust.By pushing them away it kind of weeds the ones out that are not willing to take the time to do this,which to me is a sign that they are not really going to be there for you in hard times anyways.

But maybe you push away someone who has hurt you in the past(maybe he doesn’t know he did it, maybe not even you realize it) and no you don’t trust him anymore.You want him to prove you you can trust him again.And the only way he can do it, is if he’s still there for you no matter how many times you reject him, he still waits for the day when you’ll be able to trust him again.He doesn’t give up on you.(Too bad most of the guys give up so easy when the girl they love rejects them….)

Or you're hurting and its one of those self loathing things....why do people do this? I really don't know, but we do. Kinda like pushing a bruise to see if it still hurts. Allowing people to get close would mean getting over the pain.

If you’re the rejected one you should know this :
(I might be reapeating myself, but this is important or you to know)

She’s pushing you away because:

She wants to know if you can love her shadow side. She is mean to you. She does not answer your calls. She is late for your dates. She tells you the relationship isn't working. She does things she knows will annoy you. She doesn't really want you to go. She wants you to say, "I am not going to let you push me away". She wants a man that loves her enough to put up with her ridiculousness .She wants to know that you will sit and wait for her to return. She wants to know that you will let her go. She wants to know that you don't "need" her, that you aren't trying to "trap" her. She wants to know that you don't want to control or change her, but that you love her enough to give her freedom.

She feels unworthy of you. She has dated guys before that seemed to like her and then they got to know the "real" her and they decided they didn't like her. She seems confident. She will even tell you she is confident, but she isn't. She thinks that guys love the "fake" her, but no one understands the "real" her. Once you see this "real" her, you won't want to talk to her anymore. She wants you to be patient. She wants you to make her feel safe. She wants you to find the real her and love her anyway.

If you feel a push/pull, if it seems like she really loves you and doesn't want to push you away, realize that there is probably one of these issues (or several) in motion.Sometimes the more she tries to push you away the more she actually loves you(but her feelings for you are so intense that it scares her) 

I am trying to tell you that when you see these problems occuring, you should know IT HAS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with you. It is about her. And once she heals herself, these problems with disappear on their own. The only thing you can do is to wait for her if you love her enough.Make sure she know you’ll be there for her.Earn her trust.

The worst thing you can do when you deal with a girl like that is to ask her:” when are you going to be ok?”.I mean, seriously?How stupid can you be to ask such a dumb question?Like it’s not enough the things she’s dealing with, you come and drop this question making her feel guily for her problems(problems that maybe you or another asshole made her go through).Anyone who deals with this issues want to heal but it takes time, it takes support….

I wrote about this subject on purpouse.Because many people deal with this problem.And 80% of them don’t even no it.I wrote it for the pushers because I wanted them to know why are they doing this.But I also wrote for those who are pushed away so they know why, so they know that those who push them away might actually really love them. But I wrote especially because I’m one of them.I’m one of the girls that push away the loved ones.Why is that in my case?I do it for many of the reasons I wrote here.

I do it because I felt rejected by my parents(even if now I know they never meant to),because I missed my mom a lot when I was a child and she was away, and it made me belive that the people I love will always be apart from me, that I must be so bad I don’t deserve them to love me, that I will never be good enough so no one can ever love me….

I do it because the first guy I loved pushed me away, he built a wall beetwen me and him so he made me belive that no matter what I do, no matter how good I am, It will never be enough for him to love me

I do it because some people made me have a very low self-esteem

I do it because I’m scared I do it because I love them so much, I can’t let them see me when I’m down.I want the to get only the best of me.I want to be perfect for them, so that they can be proud with me.I don’t want them to be ashamed of having a messed up girl like me around.

I wish all the people I reject know this and understand what I really feel…

You think it’s hard for you that I reject you.But you don’t know how hard it is for me to reject you, to leave you when I actually love you, do be apart from you when I miss you so much.Sometimes I hold the phone in my hand and cry so badly when the loved ones call and I’m not able to answer them as much as I want to.

But when someone hasn’t been through what I’ve been there’s no way he can understand how I fell.That’s why I push you away…..

So….don’t forget that : If we push you away….it’s not because we don’t want you…It’s because we actually love you a lot, but don’t want you to see the dark side of us.Eveytime we tell you to leave, we actually want you to stay, we want you to say that everything will be allright, that you’ll wait for us, that you love us no matter what.But trust me it’s hard to be with someone who keeps rejecting you, and it worths only if you really love her.


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40 comentarii:

jamigre 20 septembrie 2010, 00:17  

but here's a question, after a while is that pushing away, does it subside, does it go away? When you finally do have the trust in the other person or is it infinite.

satmaya 27 septembrie 2010, 13:45  

I don't think it will last forever(that pushing away)....actually, i'm pretty sure it's just a temporary thing....but it takes a while(how long it will be depends on the person, on how scared is she/he of trusting, and of course it depends on the other one, how able it will be to get her/his trust).

The truth is....sometimes, those who are the "pushing away" type need help...not only from family, friends, but from someone who's able to understand them.Someone who's able to make them understand there's nothing to be afraid of.To understand that sometimes it worths taking the risk of getting hurt.

It's just the way things work.You can’t run away from all the things, people that might or may hurt you.

Hope my answer satisfied you.If you don't mind me asking, who's the "pushing away type" in your case?Is it you or the other one?

If you still wanna know more about this, if you want someone to talk with,someone who's got a little experience with this thing, you can talk to me.I'll be more then willing to help 'cause I know how hard it can be on both sides (pushing away or being pushed away).

Just send me a mail.

Good luck with that.I hope you(or the one who's troubled by this problem) will manage to solve it.

Anonim 15 octombrie 2010, 15:05  

I'm a pusher. I've been analyzing my behaviour a lot over this year and you've identified most of the reasons behind why I push. It's so paradoxical. It's frustrating that you can't behave the way you feel. If you love them, why can't you show them that? After I push I feel so sad. I know I'm hurting the other person and myself.

I'd love to talk to you someday.

satmaya 17 octombrie 2010, 23:36  

Yes it is indeed very frustrating when you can't tell, can't show what you actually feel. People think is hard to be the rejected one, but us,m the ones that reject others, we suffer more. Because we hurt not only the other one, but we also hurt ourselveso
Of course you are sad,when you pushed away a loved one, you just trew away a part of you, You pushed away a piece of your life, your soul,so your puzzle will always be incomplete..

Anyway...if you really want that, talking to me, please just write me at my email adress:
satmaya@yahoo.com
I would be glad if I can offer you a little bit of support......or just talk about this problem , share information....

Anonim 24 octombrie 2010, 18:38  

This is unbelievable, thanks for sharing, you are so sweet, I send you all my love... Bruno

clare 1 noiembrie 2010, 23:08  

Well my advice to the pushed one would be to live their life to the full...if you believe love to be a verb and not just a feeling the 'being pushed away world' feels exhausting and not a very loving one to be in at all. Not to say this behaviour isn't without reason, but perhaps the 'pusher awayers' shouldn't get involved with people until they can take responsibility for how they are in relationships and develop some courage.

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My ex boss was a lot like this. She would let me bond with her and then push me away. She did it a few times and I finally said enough is enough. I am 29 and she is 52. She could be the best person in the world and then turn into an abusive witch. She really, really hurt me. I wasn't perfect but I really tried with her. You can only take so much pain and abuse from someone.

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Lee marie 30 august 2015, 00:35  

My name is Frank Morrison, my family and i live together live in Canada.It was after seven years i got to discover that my wife was unfaithful to me.I didn't know what was going on at first but as she got deep in the affair with her new lover, i felt that our marriage was on the rocks.I notice that she no longer light up when i touch her or kiss her in her neck and her chest cos she really liked it when i did that, she also usually get naked in front of me but when she started seeing that guy she stopped it.I remember asking her if i have done anything that makes her feel irritated when i am around her then she gives silly excuses that she has been feeling stressed up and that she need space for a while.I know when you are been asked for space its usually because there is something fishy is going on.I hired a private investigator to help find out what was going on.And in a week time he brought me prove that my wife that i have lived with for seven straight year is cheating on me with her high school lover.I had picture of her walking out a of a restaurant with him and many other photo of them kissing in public like she will never be caught by someone that knows she is my wife.I asked myself, even when we had a daughter together she could this to me.That same night i showed her the pictures that i got from my private investigator.She didn't look at it before saying, that she is seeing someone and she know that i just found out about it.Then she said that she is in love with him.At that moment, i didn't know if to kill myself or to kill her but the button line is that if i was going to kill anyone it was going to be me cos i was so much in love with her to even think of thinking to hurt her.As time when on she asked for a divorce and got it and even got custody of our daughter and i was all alone by myself.For a year i tried all i could to get her back with the help of my seven year old daughter.Even at that all effect was in vain, i used the help of her friend but turned out all bad.I know most people don't believe in spell casting but believe me this was my last option and the result i most say was impressive.And i know it difficult to believe but A SPELL CASTER Dr Koffy really made my life much better cos he gave me my family back.He didn't ask me to pay for what he did for me all i was to do, was to provide the materials for the spell and believe that he had the power to help me.Like he said, he was going to do something that will make her reset her love and affection for me just as it has always been.My wife told me she woke up and realized that she should have never left me that i am all she needs.To make thing clear, her life with her high school lover was great before Dr Koffy caster the spell they had no disagreement on anything.The guy said it himself that why she broke up with him is unexplainable.Only Dr Koffy can do such a thing contact him to solve your problem with his email:koffyspelltemple@gmail.com HE WILL DEFINITELY HELP YOU TOO

Unknown 9 decembrie 2015, 06:01  

I know this is an older article but I ran across it and it hits so close to home for me. I am the one constantly being pushed away. It happens anywhere from a few days to a few months. And it can happen after we are especially close or have a misunderstanding. He will just go quiet on me. I believe he loves me deeply, or is at least attached.I sense that he doesn't want me to see his dark side. How can I get him to trust me and to know that I love and accept him completely? (Even the dark side that leaks out sometimes?) I am committed to sticking it out with him. I just don't know what to do to help him to feel safe. What works for me seems to hurt him. Any advice you can give me would be much appreciated.

Kelly 9 decembrie 2015, 21:35  

I know this is an older article but I ran across it and it hits so close to home for me. I am the one constantly being pushed away. It happens anywhere from a few days to a few months. And it can happen after we are especially close or have a misunderstanding. He will just go quiet on me. I believe he loves me deeply, or is at least attached.I sense that he doesn't want me to see his dark side. How can I get him to trust me and to know that I love and accept him completely? (Even the dark side that leaks out sometimes?) I am committed to sticking it out with him. I just don't know what to do to help him to feel safe. What works for me seems to hurt him. Any advice you can give me would be much appreciated.

james mack 10 februarie 2016, 11:28  

Thank you thank you Dr.jarto for what you have just done, for helping me getting my husband who left me with two kids years ago to me I thank you so much the great jarto of Dr.jartospellcaster@gmail.com for Bringing back my family i am greatfull and will always be if you also Need his help his email (Dr.jartospellcaster@gmail.com ) My name is Anne jones I am from Spain i want to share my happiness with the general public of what Dr.jarto of india but now in Africa has done for me in the last few weeks i was once in love this guy called McCarty we in love with each other until traveled out of my state for two year and we promise ourselves to be together forever, but before return from my journey he where now having another lover when i try to come back to he. He told me i should go away i love him so much that i could not let he go just like that then i told a friend about it and she advice me and recommend this man Dr.jarto for me when i visit he at Dr.jartospellcaster@gmail.com he only ask me to buy some items for sacrifices to help me get my ex back and he actually did it and it work well and today I am happy with encase any one is out there with same problem or any kind I advice he or she to contact this man today at Dr.jartospellcaster@gmail.com and with what he did for me I believe he can also help you thank once again Dr jarto

Sandra Ehi 2 iunie 2016, 06:44  

The only man who can help you fix your Marriage and Relationship After a Divorce or Breakup,I want to let the whole world know about Dr ugbor the Great spell caster that brought back the father of my 2 kids after we have been separated for 4 years.I only pay for the items required for the spell and he cast the spell for me within 48hours my ex called me and beg me to forgive him for every thing and now we are back together.if you need a real and quick love spell,or pregnancy problem than Dr ugbor is the answer you can email him now on,drugborspellhome@gmail.com or call him with this number,+2348054265852

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Sandra Ehi 7 octombrie 2016, 07:12  

The only man who can help you fix your Marriage and Relationship After a Divorce or Breakup,I want to let the whole world know about Dr ugbor the Great spell caster that brought back the father of my 2 kids after we have been separated for 4 years.I only pay for the items required for the spell and he cast the spell for me within 48hours my ex called me and beg me to forgive him for every thing and now we are back together.if you need a real and quick love spell,or pregnancy problem than Dr ugbor is the answer you can email him now on,drugborspellhome@gmail.com or call him with this number,+2348054265852

DOCTOR UGBOR CAN AS WELL CURE THE FOLLOWING DISEASE

1. HIV/AIDS
2. HERPES
3. CANCER ALL KINDS
4. ALS

john lisa 3 noiembrie 2016, 12:17  

i am here to give testimony of how i got back my husband, we got married for more than 9 years and have gotten two kids. thing were going well with us and we are always happy. until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treat me and the kids. later that month he did not come home again and he called me that he want a divorce, i asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he was saying is that he want a divorce that he hate me and do not want to see me again in his life, i was mad and also frustrated do not know what to do,i was sick for more than 2 weeks because of the divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my sister and she told me to contact a spell caster, i never believe in all this spell casting of a thing. i just want to try if something will come out of it. i contacted ( Dr.azukasolutionhome@gmail.com ) for the return of my husband to me, they told me that my husband have been taken by another woman, that she cast a spell on him that is why he hate me and also want us to divorce. then they told me that they have to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and the kids, they casted the spell and after 1 week my husband called me and he told me that i should forgive him, he started to apologize on phone and said that he still live me that he did not know what happen to him that he left me. it was the spell that he traditional spell hospital casted on him that make him comeback to me today,me and my family are now happy again today. thank you Dr Azuka for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great spell. i want you my friends who are passing through all this kind of love problem of getting back their husband, wife , or ex boyfriend and girlfriend to contact Dr.azukasolutionhome@gmail.com .or call +2348132777335 web site http://reallyrealspellcasters.blogspot.com and you will see that your problem will be solved without any delay.

UPDATE 14 decembrie 2016, 21:51  

Resolve Your Marriage Issues With The Help Of Prophet 24hours..

GREETINGS everyone.. My name is Sarah Gomez FROM CANADA i will never forget the help Prophet 24hours rendered to me in my marital life. i have been married for 5 years now and my husband and i love each other very dearly . after 3 years of our marriage my husband suddenly change he was having an affair with a lady outside,i notice it then i was praying for divine intervention the thing became more serious i told my pastor about it we prayed but nothing happen. my husband just came home one day he pick up his things and left me and the kids to his mistress outside at this time i was confuse not knowing what to do again because i have lost my husband and my marriage too. i was searching for help in the internet, i saw many people sharing testimony on how Prophet 24hourshelp them out with their marital problems so i contacted the email of Prophet 24hours i told him my problem and i was told to be calm that i have come to the right place were i can get back my husband within the next 24hours. He told me what went wrong with my husband and how it happen.that they will restored my marriage. to my greatest surprise my husband came to my office begging me on his knees that i should find a place in my heart to forgive him,that he will never cheat on me again. i quickly ask him up that i have forgiven him.friends your case is not too hard why don't you give Prophet 24hours a try they work surprises because i know they will help you to fix your relationship with your ex partner. i thank god for using Prophet Ayelala to save my marriage. Contact him via Email: ( 24hourslovespell@gmail.com ) Or Reach him on whats-app: +2347059073543

Pamela 12 ianuarie 2017, 13:44  

Hoe op aarde kan ik bedanken Doctor Okumu te herenigen mijn man en ik na 4 jaar van de echtscheiding. Ik ben het delen van deze verklaring op het internet, want ik maakte een gelofte om Doctor Okumu dat als hij mij en mijn man met zijn ban reunit ik zal de wereld over him.My man vertellen Scheiding me 4 jaar geleden en ik heb al een leven van pijn en verdriet tot een vriend vertelde me hoe Doctor Okumu helpen haar kreeg haar mn rug, dus ik onmiddellijk contact opgenomen Doctor Okumu via e-mail om hulp en ik ben zo blij dat gisteren mijn man belde me en kwam naar mijn huis met tranen in zijn ogen bedelen me op zijn kness om hem te vergeven en te accepteren hem terug. Ben je hart gebroken of behoefte aan een geld spell dan contact arts Okumu voor hulp via e-mail:
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Unknown 28 februarie 2017, 03:36  

I never believe on love spells until i met a friend of my who told me everything about DR.ehis who brought her ex-boyfriend back, even when she was telling me i did not believe her because i thought that she also wanted the same fake spell casters to take away my money. Although i gave her chance to explain everything she has to tell me about DR.ehis , i said to her that there are many scammers who want to take our money and i will never fall victim on them, even though my fiancee who suppose to marry me in a few months from now left me i will wait patiently for another guy though i loved him so much. she told me that this DR is not a fake one that he is real and he has helped many people to get their loved ones back, then i ask her how does this spell work and what is the requirements that i have to do before he can cast the love spells on me? she told me that i should emailed him on (EHISOJOKU@HOTMAIL.COM)

Unknown 10 martie 2017, 05:35  

hello my name is mr, Micheal i
Live in Japanese i want you all to join me to
thank this man for restoring my relationship with my ex lover
who dump me for another Man for 5 months because the
man had money, at first i never believed priest azula. will be able
to help me win Rose back from this other other guy but
because i still love her and need her back in my life, i worked
and follow his instruction and it surprise me that after
working with him, Rose called me and ask me to forgive
and forget the past that she still love me and that was how
me and my angel came back for good. So with this great
work done for by dr EHIS i promise to always share
his good work to the whole wide world and if any body is out
there passing through any relationship difficulties should
kindly contact him on :{EHISOJOKU@HOTMAIL.COM}.

caroline mary 11 martie 2017, 02:52  

Hello everyone i`am caroline from Uganda, i am very happy today and satisfied, This is certainly a shocking and a genuine Testimony..I visited a forum here on the internet on the 10TH OF JANUARY 2017, And i saw a marvelous testimony of this powerful and great spell caster called Prophet Abulele on the forum..I never believed it, because i never heard nor learnt anything about magic before.. Not a soul would have been able to influence me about magical spells, not until Prophet Abulele did it for me and restored my marriage of 5 years back to me and brought my husband back to me in the same 3 days just as i read on the internet..i was truly astonished and shocked when my husband knelt down begging for forgiveness and for me to accept him back.. I am really short of expressions, and i don't know how much to convey my appreciation to you Prophet Abulele you are a God sent to me and my entire family.. And now i am a joyful woman once again.. here is his Email: prophetabulelehealingtemple@gmail.com

CHERRY SHANE 16 mai 2017, 23:47  

Hi My name is 'CHERRY SHANE' just want to share my experience with the world on how i got my husband back and saved my marriage... I was married for 7 years with 2 kids we lived happily until things started getting ugly, a point where he filed for divorce... I tried my best to make her change his mind & stay with me cause i loved him so much didn't want to loose him but everything just didn't work out... he moved out of the house and still went ahead to file for divorce... I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. The breakthrough came when someone introduced me to this wonderful, great spell caster who eventually helped me out... I have never been a fan of things like this but just decided to try reluctantly cause I was desperate and left with no choice... He did special prayers and cast a return back spell on him... Within 7 days he called me and was sorry for all the emotional trauma he had cost me, moved back to the house and we continue to live happily, the kids are happy too and we are expecting our third child. I have introduced him to a lot of couples with problems across the world and they have had good news... Just thought I should share my experience cause I strongly believe someone out there need's it... You can email him via eromosalespelltemple@gmail.com website http://eromosalspiritualtemple.webs.com or call him with +2348161850195..

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